I identify
vulnerability as an important element in many of my training and consulting
settings.
vul·ner·a·ble [vuhl-ner-uh-buh
l]
adjective
1.
capable of or susceptible to being wounded
or hurt,
2.
open to moral
attack, criticism, temptation,
3.
open to
assault; difficult to defend: .
In coaching
training I describe that much more teacher growth is likely to occur in
coaching and mentoring sessions than in evaluation or supervision. The reason
is that a teacher will make him/herself more vulnerable in a coaching or
mentoring setting. That vulnerability creates the opportunity to change and
grow….defensiveness is low.
Similarly,
in the classroom, teachers work to create an environment where students are
comfortable being vulnerable. When a student will share his thinking or idea
without certainty of correctness, leaning advances….the student is open to
criticism.
When
working with professional learning communities, I describe that PLCs move from
meetings of individuals to franchises to teams as they develop trust and shared
responsibility for students. In order for the trust to develop some members
need to be vulnerable…. sharing a concern, an example of where they are not
getting the student response or success that they desire. They are susceptible
to being seen as ineffective.
This week I
was working with state department of education leaders who were exploring ways
for departments, who have previously functioned more independently, to become a
team with a common focus on school improvement and student achievement. I
shared work from Margaret Wheatley identifying the need to focus on the flow of
information within an organization, the importance of rich and diverse
relationships, and a common vision.
These
leaders formed groups that identified what behaviors they would need to
consciously practice in order to bring about an organizational culture that
would produce the desired teamwork. Their lists included phrases like
collaboration, improved communication, sharing, exploring options, etc. As I
studied the lists I realized an underlying element that was required was
vulnerability.
These
department leaders would need to risk being open to each other, sharing
information and resources, supporting others before the trust formed. Someone
must be vulnerable for trust to develop.
David Peck writing
in The Recovering Leader suggests that vulnerability is the job of leaders:
Leadership
requires the courage to make yourself vulnerable before others you want to
inspire or guide, and anyone with whom you intend to create something of
lasting value. When you act authentically with those who are – or may be –
important to you, they will reciprocate, and be moved to do their best work.
The
greatest collaborations are based on shared vulnerability.
Teachers
who are vulnerable with their students set the stage for student risk taking
and learning. School leaders need to model the same for staff.
When we
were children, we used to think that when we were grown-up we would no longer
be vulnerable. But to grow up is to accept vulnerability. To be alive is to be
vulnerable. - Madeleine
L'Engle
Happy New
Year to All!
I’ll share more pondering in 2012
I’ll share more pondering in 2012




